This tumblr is just mine. I want to use it to join kandi communities when I can start making it but it's just mine really. It might not always be kandi related.
I'm a 30 year old girl from England that has slight learning disabilites that make me younger than I am in my head. So mentally I'm around 12 - 15. Feel free to send me questions and notes and I'll do my best to answer them.
I like kandi, bright colours, glowy things, music, animals, Discworld, Doctor Who and WoW.
Think Anorexia is funny? Sorry. I am a survivor and find NOTHING cute about this.
Wanna dress up like an Anorexic? All it takes is:
4 years of hospitalization
A nasogastric feeding-tube because you’ve starved yourself so much that your body doesn’t recognize food as a good thing and tries to attack itself.
Re-Feeding Syndrome, which can kill you.
Emotional struggles for years.
A father crying and pleading on his knees begging for you to get help
A mother who cries every time she sees you because you look and SMELL like death.
Holidays missed, birthdays crying in a hospital.
Almost every major organ in your body failing.
A shower chair - because you can’t stand in the shower because you’re too weak and the warm water could make you pass out.
A wheelchair, because you are too weak to walk and it could make you go into cardiac arrest.
A lifetime of medications for anxiety and the health issues “Anna Rexia” caused.
Plenty of money for multiple ER trips due to “Anna Rexia” even in recovery.
And if you don’t get help like I do, or even if you do, a coffin. Because I’ve lost more friends to this eating disorder then anything I’ve ever faced.
I almost died from this. I know it’s supposed to be funny and shit and yeah I get that, but seriously. THIS IS NOT FUNNY. Anorexia is nothing to party about or laugh at. It’s real, it’s deadly, and should not be marketed as a slutty outfit.
Want to dress as “Anna Rexia”? Just go as a Vampire, or a Zombie. Because 1/3 of us are dead.
A FRIENDLY PSA ABOUT SERVICE DOGS: If you see someone with a service dog. DO NOT INTERACT WITH THE DOG. Doge is working very hard for their person. DO NOT ASK SOMEONE WHY THEY HAVE A SERVICE DOG. That is very rude. If you want you can tell them their dog is cute or nice, that is okay. That is…
Hey everybody it’s Gabe Barham. I first met Gabe last year and since then we’ve been on a couple of tours together. Each tour we’ve been on tho has been extremely busy and because of that we don’t actually chill that often. From the times we have hung out tho I’ve gathers this much information. He LOVES his girlfriend-his dog Bentley (who is adorable) - and playing drums. He also wears sunglasses all the time (at least every time I’ve seen him) which is a talent all on its own cause I can’t do that. Oh, also I got to soundcheck drums for him one day in Canada and he was so sweet. The Lord knows I know nothing about checking drums but he still entrusted me with doing the task. I’m real happy we got to take this photo with the suicide sign and I’m hoping we tour together soon again. I need some Gabe in my life.